Once a cheater always a cheater - is it true?

Introduction:

The age-old saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” has been around for years. But does it still hold true today? We’ve all heard stories of people who have cheated in the past and gone on to have successful relationships with their partners. But is it really possible for someone to change their ways and commit to monogamy after being unfaithful in the past? Let’s take a closer look at this issue.

What research tells us about cheating

Studies suggest that people who are more likely to cheat are those who feel more entitled than others, or those who have difficulty managing their emotions and impulses. In addition, individuals may also be more likely to stray if they feel like they don't get enough attention from their partner or if they think that their partner isn't meeting their needs. This doesn’t mean that everyone who feels this way will cheat — far from it! However, understanding why some people might be more prone to cheating can help us understand why someone might do so and whether or not they could change in the future.

Can People Change?

When it comes down to it, the answer is yes - people can change! It is possible for someone who has cheated in the past to become an honest and faithful partner in the future. However, there is no guarantee that someone will remain faithful — especially if they haven't taken steps to address any underlying issues that may have led them to cheat in the first place. That said, with time and effort, it is possible for someone to become trustworthy again. If you are dating someone who has cheated in the past, make sure that you discuss what happened openly and honestly so that you both know where you stand moving forward.

Conclusion

Ultimately, whether or not “once a cheater always a cheater” holds true depends on each individual situation. Some people may find themselves unable to break old habits while others may be able to learn from their mistakes and move forward with honesty and trustworthiness intact. Ultimately, only time will tell if an individual can truly change his/her ways when it comes to cheating - something people should keep in mind when trying to decide if entering into another relationship is worth the risk. Although “once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't necessarily apply across the board, understanding why some people might be predisposed towards cheating can help us make better decisions when considering new relationships going forward.

Nicholas Purcell

Nicholas Purcell is a couples counsellor and psychotherapist based in Adelaide, Australia. He works with couples seeking healthy, adult relationship.

http://www.nicholaspurcell.com.au
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